He has let me be a stay-at-home mother while trying to launch my own business and has offered love and support every step of the way. Make an honest effort, and see if you reach the walk-away point. My kids are now 14, 12 and When they were younger it was so hard to be alone and take care of them. I've told him multiple times that I don't care how much money he'll make, but one of his big things is that he wants to provide for me and his family in the future, with that being one of his main motivators.
In fact, the church is designed to help people come unto Christ, who is the only one who can change our hearts and help us overcome ourselves to come back to him. I agree with what you and so many of the other replies have said: Listen with an open heart and curiosity. She really likes me, and if she could change one thing about me it would be my lack of religion. He is truly my best friend, my life partner but I can't help, at times, feel extremely lonely and depressed. Then on one of his lighter weeks when we get some quality time together and text more I reinvest myself and the resentment disappears because I think things are progressing into a real relationship That's also great advice about how to talk to him. IMO he should've been up-front about that before beginning to date you, but, sounds like you're okay with it now that everything's clear. You will be able to best gauge where her beliefs stand in regards to the church if you listen to how she describes her mission.
You should take all of the above advice to heart and follow it just in case, so you can make a smooth transition should it ever be necessary. What can I or your spouse do to make my spouse feel more important besides not being a physician. Your attempts at being funny or lightening the mood may backfire, and your date may be put off.
You can't reason with fanatics, and you got one. BUT it could easily have gone the other way. When my wife and I married, we were very different, but I found all the differences delightful.